Ultimate Guide To Biking With Kids And Toddlers

Author: Kristen Bonkoski


Biking with kids and toddlers can SEEM overwhelming. Should you use a bike trailer or bike seat? How do you help young kids keep up on their own bikes? And, how do you keep your kids safe?

The good news is that it’s actually pretty simple, and we’ll help you figure it all out. We are avid cyclists who have learned to bike with our son over the years, and who frequently bike with our young nephews and other families with kids.

Whether you are new to cycling and looking for a way to get some exercise and spend time with the family, or a veteran cyclist who is new to parenthood, we are here to give you some tips and advice on how to get started cycling with kids.  

kids in trailer

Keep Your Expectations In Check

First things first: riding bikes with kids is not the same as riding bikes on your own. There are going to be lots of stops, the pace will probably be slower, and you will have to find creative ways to keep them entertained.

That said, cycling is a family can be one of the most enjoyable and rewarding things you’ll ever do. The first step is to pick the appropriate gear for your family.

How To Haul Kids By Bike

There are several options for hauling kids on your bike (or on their own bike). These options include:

  • Bike seats (front or rear)
  • Bike trailers
  • Cargo bikes
  • Trailer-cycles
  • Tow ropes and tow bars

Read: 7 Best Child Carriers for Bikes

Bike Seats And Trailers

The most common way to bike with young kids and toddlers is to use a bike seat or trailer. Bike seats can be either front-mounted or rear-mounted.

What’s better—a bike seat or a trailer?

This is a trick question, there is no better—just what’s best for your family. In either case, your child will need to be 12 months old and have good neck strength to start riding with you.  (For babies younger than 12 months, read this article on cycling with infants first).

In our family, we used a combination of both when our son was young(we ride a lot)! Without a doubt, our favorite option is a front-mounted bike seat.

We started riding with our son in an iBert seat when he turned a year old and we loved being able to chat with him while we rode, and he loved being up front and feeling involved. As he got a little older, we switched to the Mac Ride. As mountain bikers, we also like that front mounted seats give you the ability to ride off road on mild singletrack. 

The drawback of a front-mounted seat is that it only fits children up to about 35 pounds. Older kids, however, can still fit in a rear-mounted seat.

Rear-mounted seats can also be nice for those with longer legs or a small bike, where a front mounted seat might interfere with pedaling and steering. In fact, bike compatibility is always an issue with seats.

Please note, the safety of both front and rear mounted seats is often debated. Seats are widely used in Europe but are less accepted in the United States.

Having extensive experience riding with a front mounted seat, I feel comfortable with it personally, but it is certainly up to the individual rider. For those primarily concerned with safety, we recommend using a trailer.

Burley Cub Bike Trailer

The thing I love about trailers is the ability to haul stuff. Any parent knows that if you leave the house for more than 10 minutes with a young child, you have to bring supplies along–spare clothes, diapers, snacks, toys, you name it. Most child bicycle trailers have ample storage to bring along everything plus the kitchen sink (of course the weight penalty that comes with this might be problematic).

The other nice thing about trailers is the ability to carry more than one child. There are several trailer models out there designed to carry two small children—something that is challenging to do with a bike seat (although we’ve seen bikes with both front and rear seats mounted).   Many trailers on the market also convert to a jogger or stroller, which can be nice for active families who only want to make one large purchase.

The biggest drawback to a trailer is keeping a kiddo entertained in there. For my son at least, he gets bored easily. I have to turn around to see or talk to him, and he doesn’t feel part of the action.   Giving him toys to play with, a snack to eat, and keeping the ride short (to the park or grocery store) definitely helps.

Cargo Bikes & Trailer Cycles

Although not as common as child seats or trailers, there are several other great options for hauling kids. These include cargo bikes and trailer-cycles.

Madsen Cargo Bike

Cargo bikes, rarely seen in the US outside of cycling-crazy cities like Seattle, are hugely popular in Europe. These bikes may be used to carry kids or gear.

Most bikes used to transport kids have either a bucket up front or in the rear with buckles to keep them safe, OR a long rack on the back to install a bike seat. Cargo bikes are a great option for families who live the cycling lifestyle, who commute by bike, and are willing to make the investment in a bike specifically for riding with their kids.

For slightly older children, a trailer-cycle is a great option. This is for kids who might be old enough to ride a bike on their own but wouldn’t be able to keep up or ride as far as mom and dad.

Most trailer-cycles attach to the rear seat-post and provide a detachable tandem seat for the child. The child is able to pedal along and be part of the action.

The innovative Weehoo iGo is another type of trailer-cycle that allows the child to pedal along in a recumbent-type seat.   Kids as young as 2 can ride in the seat and have the option to sit back and relax (or sleep) rather than pedal.

For Bigger Kids, Consider A Tow Rope Or Tow Bar

Finally, for kids on their own bicycles who need a little help keeping up or going longer distances, consider a tow rope or tow bar. Now that our son is older, we no longer haul him in a seat or a trailer, but we still use a tow rope on nearly every ride.

followme tandem in action

Encouraging and Teaching Kids To Ride A Bike

Kids can start riding a balance bike around 18 months old. Balance bikes are pedal-less bicycles that encourage development of gross motor skills.

Toddlers can walk, toddle, and scoot along until they gain the confidence to lift their feet and coast. Regardless of whether they start at 18 months, 3 years old, or 5 years old, we recommend all kids start on a balance bike rather than a pedal bike. It allows them to gain the feel for balancing a bike prior to adding pedals to the mix.

For kids who start on a balance bike at a young age, they generally are able to move to a pedal bike without training wheels at a much earlier age (some as early as 2.5 or 3) than those who started directly on a bike with training wheels. Of course, training wheels aren’t always bad (we’ve used them)! If your child is on a bike with training wheels, it is important to raise them periodically so the bike is slightly unstable and your child begins to learn to balance on their own.

Rember, teaching kids to ride a bike and getting them excited about riding a bike are two different things. The most important thing is making it fun!

Kids are hugely influenced by what they see their parents doing.  If you are going for bike rides and are enthusiastic about cycling yourself, kids will want to try biking too. You can also show them YouTube videos of kids riding or invite friends or neighborhood kids over who enjoy riding their bikes. Fun is contagious!

Keep rides short, and let your child dictate how long they want to ride for. If they say they want to go home, go home.   Find a fun destination (the playground, a BMX park, the ice cream parlor) and make it more about the fun of the outing than about cycling itself.

Keeping Kids Entertained

When riding with kids in the front mounted seat, it is pretty easy to keep them entertained. My husband has a speaker on his handlebar and when he rides with our nephews, they listen to music and sing together.

Next to the speaker, he has a “fun” bell that our son used to reach and ring every time he remembered he was having fun (which was a lot). The benefit of the seat is the ability to talk to your kiddo easily, and they talk about things they see, adventures they are going to have, and the day at school.

The trailer is a little bit trickier (in our experience), but still doable with proper planning. We also make sure to bring a few toys, paper and crayons, a sippy cup, and a snack. If we are riding as a family, the parent that’s not pulling the trailer hangs back to chat with the little one. A blanket lets them take a nap if they feel like it.

Burley bike trailer

Perhaps even more important than the journey is the destination. We usually pick a fun place to ride to—the playground, dinner, a hiking trail. We talk to the kids ahead of time about where we are going so they are more likely to be willing and excited to go along.

For preschool age kids, they are often slow but will ask to ride on their own. If we’re not in a big hurry, we often let them start out on their own bike. This is when I really love the trailer.

Little ones can ride a few miles until they are tired, and then we will stop and strap their bike to the trailer, and they will climb in for a rest. Win-win. We even do this mountain biking, and I’ll strap the balance bike to my back when the kiddo is done riding.

Helmets and Gear

Whether your little one is riding their own bike or riding with you, a good helmet is non-negotiable.   In fact, it’s even the law in many places.

Pretty much all helmets for sale in the US are CPSC/ASTM certified. That said, some are better than others. For older babies and toddlers, weight is key as they are still so small and neck strength is limited.

Once you have the helmet, you also want to make sure that it is properly fit and tightened. A helmet that is too loose or the wrong size won’t protect your little one like it should.

Young kids don’t need special clothing for cycling, although it is important that they are comfortable. Sweats and gym clothes are ideal.

If they want to look cool, get them a cycling jersey to match mom and dad. If they are riding on their own, gloves and protective pads are recommended to help cushion falls.

ZippyRooz Half-Finger Monster Gloves

One other thing to consider is the temperature outdoors. We often ride year-round with our toddler, so it is important to dress in layers.

If your little one is riding in a front-mounted bike seat, realize they are getting the full brunt of any wind chill, and they aren’t pedaling to generate heat like you are.

Get Your Child A Good Bike

If you want to have fun biking with your kids, get them good bikes. A lightweight bike with child-appropriate geometry will help your child to ride faster, further, and have more fun doing it.

Woom 3

Where To Ride & Safety

The best places to ride with young kids are on bike paths or rail trails. Free from vehicular traffic, you can focus on fun not on dodging cars.

If your town doesn’t have great cycling infrastructure, you can piece together a ride on residential roads. Avoid major thoroughfares if at all possible. Remember always to use the bike lane or the side of the far right lane; never ride on the sidewalk, which is illegal in most places.

Find Other Families To Ride With

Finding other families to ride with can totally revolutionize your experience with family biking. It’s always nice to have more experienced parents show you how to ride in traffic with kids or how to get your kiddo pedaling.

Riding with other children is also hugely benefiical for kids who are a little reluctant to bike. There’s nothing like a little peer pressure and company to get a kiddo biking.

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About Us

The Rascals are a family of three. Kristen (mom), Blair (dad), and Parker (kiddo). We started Rascal Rides when Parker was born and we didn’t want to give up our passion for biking. As we learned, we shared. Over the years, we’ve tested hundreds of kids bikes, helmets, bike trailers, and more.

Kristen is a USA Cycling certified coach and loves to share her passion for biking with other families. Blair is a bike geek, mechanic, and mountain bike junkie. Parker is our resident tester and inspiration.

If you see us out on the trail, make sure to say hi!

2 thoughts on “Ultimate Guide To Biking With Kids And Toddlers”

  1. What’s it like riding with an infant compared to riding solo? Does it affect balance alot? I’m really interested in the idea of riding with my daughter but i don’t want to put her or I in any danger, so want to make sure I’m fully in control.

    • Hi Sarah,
      It definitely does change your balance a bit. If you’re using a bike seat, I recommend practicing taking some easy, low speed rides around the neighborhood for a while until you get the hang of it. You could even strap a jug of water into the seat instead of your kiddo to practice at first. If you’re not a confident rider, then I’d recommend sticking with a trailer. That wont affect your balance at all.


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